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For retailers: Silicone is the body safe default for a dildo bay because it is non porous when it is platinum or similarly certified silicone and it can be cleaned thoroughly. Teach porosity before you teach shape. Then offer a price ladder from compact abstracts to dual density and super soft, and attach water based lube plus a toy cleaner every time.
- Say “non porous silicone” only when the brand states it. Do not upgrade mystery TPE or jelly into silicone in conversation.
- Water based lubricant only on silicone toys. See the lubricant playbook.
- Keep a good / better / best card: Compact or Acute, Charmer or Curve, Cush or Echo Super Soft.
- Do not invent margin or return rate percentages. Measure your own sell through.
- Colorful abstracts (Dildolls, NOBÜ) sit beside Tantus when shoppers do not want a realistic look. Realistic silicone is covered in the realistic dildo guide.
Stock body safe silicone as the core dildo material, train one porosity sentence, and use wholesale or dropshipping so you can hold a short ladder instead of every color.
Why should retailers stock silicone dildos?
Sexy Living is a Canadian B2B sexual wellness distributor serving wholesale and dropship partners. This guide is for buyers, managers, and floor staff who need a practical silicone dildo program, not a consumer lifestyle essay.
Silicone is the material most stores can defend at the counter. When the brand states platinum or body safe silicone, staff can talk about a non porous surface, soap or cleaner, and boiling or dishwasher guidance only if the insert allows it. Abstract shapes reduce embarrassment for first timers. Dual density and super soft give you a step up without leaving the material story.
- Trust: Body safe silicone is easier to explain than mystery jelly or unmarked TPE.
- Care: One rule: water based lube, cleaner, dry, store apart from other silicone.
- Ladder: Compact abstracts, mid size curves, dual density, super soft.
- Fulfillment: Wholesale the two or three heroes. Dropship extra colors.
Retailer note: Talk about materials, shape, firmness, and care. Do not present any toy as treatment for pain or clinical conditions.
Ask one opener: “Do you want a body safe silicone option you can wash thoroughly, and should it look abstract or more realistic?”
What should staff say about porosity and body safe silicone?
Porosity is the difference between a toy you can clean with confidence and a toy that can hold onto residue in tiny surface gaps. Platinum or similarly certified silicone is generally non porous. Porous materials such as many TPE, TPR, and jelly blends need a stricter hygiene story and often a condom recommendation. Stick to what the pack says. Do not guess a material from color or softness alone.
Safe floor language
- “Brand listed platinum / body safe silicone”
- “Non porous surface you can clean with toy cleaner”
- “Water based lube only on silicone”
- “Store it in the pouch, not touching other silicone”
Avoid inventing
- Calling every soft toy “medical grade”
- Upgrading TPE into silicone
- Fake return rate or margin percentages
- Medical cure claims
Realistic versus abstract: Material and look are separate questions. A shopper can want silicone and still want a realistic skin tone, or want silicone and a colorful abstract. Send realistic looks to the realistic dildo guide once the material is settled.
What questions should staff ask before recommending a silicone dildo?
- Abstract or realistic look? Stay in this bay for abstracts. Walk realistic shoppers to Slipskin, Sliding Skin, or Tantus Uncut after they accept silicone.
- Size comfort? Compact or Acute first. Charmer, Curve, Cush, then Echo or Destiny.
- Firm or soft? Standard Tantus firmness versus Super Soft Echo / Destiny versus dual density Cush.
- Harness compatible? Flared base is the default on these SKUs. Confirm O ring size if they also want a strap on. See the strap on guide.
- Any material sensitivity? Stay with labeled silicone and water based lube. No medical claims.
| If the shopper says… | Lead with | Why |
|---|---|---|
| “Smaller, first toy” | Compact or Acute | Short explain, lower size anxiety |
| “Everyday silicone, not tiny” | Charmer or Curve | Core mid size abstracts |
| “Softer feel” | Echo Super Soft or Destiny | Super soft lane |
| “Soft outside, firmer core” | Cush Rose Quartz | Dual density story |
| “Colorful, not realistic” | Dildolls or NOBÜ Tera | Display friendly abstracts |
How should retailers build a silicone price ladder?
Hold defined roles. Reorder from sell through. Confirm live Sexy Living SKUs before planogram or PDP publish.
| Shelf role | Example | Why it earns the slot |
|---|---|---|
| Entry compact | Tantus Compact | Smallest honest silicone start |
| Core abstract | Charmer or Acute | Everyday shape, two colors if needed |
| Curve / mid | Curve Amethyst | Defined shape without jumping to super soft |
| Dual density | Cush Rose Quartz or Cush O2 | Soft skin, firmer core story |
| Super soft | Echo Super Soft or Destiny | Premium feel in the same brand |
| Color story | Dildolls or NOBÜ | Abstract gift and window friendly |
| Attachment | Sliquid H2O + Shine cleaner | Care talk grows the basket |
Entry and core abstracts
Compact
Best for: First silicone, size cautious shoppers, travel.
Staff script: “Short body safe silicone with a flared base. Start here if bigger shapes feel like too much.”
Shop Compact →
Acute Emerald
Best for: Simple tapered abstract in a display color.
Staff script: “Clean tapered silicone. Offer Night Sky beside it if they want a darker color, not a second shape.”
Shop Acute →
Charmer Sapphire
Best for: Everyday mid size with a gentle wave.
Staff script: “This is the workhorse abstract. Copper is the alternate color, not a different toy.”
Shop Charmer →
Curve Amethyst
Best for: Shoppers who ask for a more pronounced curve.
Staff script: “Same body safe silicone story, more curve than Charmer. Confirm harness O ring if they want strap on use.”
Shop Curve →Dual density, super soft, and color stories
Cush Rose Quartz
Best for: Soft exterior with a firmer core.
Staff script: “Dual density: squishy outside, support inside. Also live as Cush O2 if you want that variant.”
Shop Cush →
Echo Super Soft
Best for: Shoppers who name softness as the first ask.
Staff script: “Super soft silicone with a swirl texture. Currant is the alternate color. Echo Handle is the grip accessory if they want a longer hold.”
Shop Echo Super Soft →
Dildolls Galactica
Best for: Window and gift shoppers who want a pastel abstract, not a realistic look.
Staff script: “Color first, then size. Sunrise, Utopia, and Nightfall are sister SKUs, not a second material.”
Shop Galactica →
TERA
Best for: Bright abstract when Dildolls is out or the shopper wants a different brand face.
Staff script: “Abstract silicone look. Confirm the care card on pack. DG9 Small Peach is the smaller NOBÜ step down.”
Shop TERA →Other live silicone to rotate: Destiny Super Soft, Echo Super Soft Currant, Echo Handle, Cush O2, Dildolls Sunrise.
How do you care for silicone dildos?
Water based on silicone: Use water based lubricant. Silicone lubricant can damage silicone toys. Lead with Sliquid H2O. Plant based water based options are in the natural lubricant guide.
Sliquid H2O
Best for: Every silicone dildo conversation.
Staff script: “Water based is the default. Skip silicone lube on these toys.”
Shop H2O →
Sliquid Shine
Best for: The care add on next to every silicone facing.
Staff script: “Spray, wipe, air dry. Follow any boiling or dishwasher note only if that specific insert allows it.”
Shop Shine →- Wash with mild soap or toy cleaner after every use.
- Rinse and air dry completely.
- Store in a pouch or cloth, not pressed against other silicone (they can bond).
- Inspect for tears or stickiness and remove damaged product from the floor.
Floor tip: One card in the case: “Silicone: water based lube. Clean, dry, store apart.”
How should retailers merchandise silicone dildos?
- Material first: A small “body safe silicone” talker at the head of the bay beats mixing unmarked materials on the same hook.
- Show scale: Compact beside Charmer beside Echo so size is obvious without opening boxes.
- Privacy: Abstracts are easier in windows than realistic skin tones. Keep realistic SKUs in the case if local norms require it.
- Harness adjacency: A flared base talker plus one harness kit nearby. Details live in the strap on playbook.
- Online copy: Repeat porosity and water based lube on every PDP so dropship matches the floor.
FAQ for store staff and product pages
Is all silicone non porous?
Treat brand listed platinum or body safe silicone as the non porous story. Do not extend that claim to unmarked blends or TPE.
Can silicone go in boiling water?
Only if that model’s insert says so. Default to cleaner, rinse, and air dry.
Why not silicone lube on a silicone toy?
Silicone lubricant can degrade silicone surfaces. Water based is the default. Full base rules are in the lubricant guide.
What if they want a realistic look in silicone?
Keep the material story, then move to the realistic dildo guide for Slipskin, Sliding Skin, and similar live SKUs.
Does Sexy Living support wholesale and dropshipping for these SKUs?
Yes. Confirm live inventory, shipping rules, and brand restrictions before you publish. Apply via wholesale signup or the Adult Dropshipping app.
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