Dame was founded in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine & MIT engineer Janet Lieberman to close what it calls the Pleasure Gap: most vibrators were not designed by or for people with vulvas. Its first product, Eva, became the most crowdfunded sex toy in history, & Fin (2016) was the first sex toy allowed on Kickstarter. Wired named Dame among the most innovative wellness companies of 2020.

Dame acquired Emojibator in 2024 & Chakrubs in 2025. Both are carried by Sexy Living alongside Dame, so a retailer can stock all 3 from 1 account.

Medical-grade silicone on every vibrator except Zee, which is soft-touch ABS plastic. Dame advises against silicone-based lubricant on its silicone toys; pair them with a water-based lubricant such as Dame Aloe Lube.

Dip is Dame's basic vibrator, built for pleasure discovery, & Zee is the rechargeable bullet for on-the-go use. Pom is the flexible palm vibrator that invites exploration. Dame's own Find Your Vibe quiz on shopdame.ca is the tool for customers who want a guided match.

Eva is a wearable, hands-free couples vibrator held in place by flexible wings, made for use during sex. Aer is a suction toy that stimulates the clitoris with air pulses across 5 intensity levels, up to 1.5 hours per charge. Eva is the partnered, hands-free choice; Aer is the fast, focused solo choice.

All Dame vibrators are USB rechargeable & ship with a charging cable & user manual; wall adapters are not included. Eva includes a charging base with a storage lid; Zee, Arc, Fin & Pom include fabric storage bags. Waterproofing varies by model, so check each product page.

Dame warranties all products against defects in materials & workmanship for 3 years from purchase, with proof of purchase, regardless of where the product was bought. Sexy Living retailers do not deal with the manufacturer: send us a photo or video of the defect & we handle the replacement. Defective products only.

Yes. Dame tests products through Dame Labs, its community of more than 10,000 real users, & has a clinical board that includes a board-certified OB/GYN, a naturopathic physician, a certified sex therapist & a pelvic-floor physical therapist.

No. Dame is a restricted brand. Sexy Living wholesale customers may not list Dame products on Amazon.ca, Amazon.com, eBay, Walmart or Etsy. See our Restricted Third Party Selling page for the full list.

Yes. Sexy Living supplies Dame testers to brick-&-mortar retailers so customers can handle the vibrators before buying: 1 tester per store, supplied with the purchase of 3 units of that model. Testers are for in-store display only, cannot be sold or given to customers, & are not available to dropshipping-only accounts. Ask your Sexy Living rep or contact us with the Dame models you stock; availability varies by model.

Yes. Sexy Living hosted a Dame Toy Talk in December 2024, a free live Zoom session with the brand, now on replay. Upcoming sessions are listed at toytalk.ca.

Yes. Dame is available in the free SexyLiving: Adult Dropshipping app on the Shopify App Store. Import the Dame products you want to sell, set your markup, & we ship each order discreetly from BC. Dropship shipping is $20 CAD plus tax per order anywhere in Canada. Details on our Dropshipping page.